DISQUS

Mashable - The Social Media Guide: Does Social Media Make Us Better People?

  • allan isfan · 9 months ago
    Peter,

    So awesome that you bring this up because it can actually be world changing.

    In fact, a project that Peter Gabriel is involved in has shown that atrocities
    in third world countries went down after people had ability to record events
    and share them with the world.

    http://www.ted.com/index.php/talks/peter_gabrie...

    Keep on rocking the intertubes with the mashable effect. Use it for good,
    and not for evil.

    @isfan
  • Suzanne Lainson · 9 months ago
    If anything, I think combination of a reality TV mentality with the ability to get attention online from doing something outrageous has encouraged more bad behavior. If people don't have a concept of shame or embarrassment, they don't worry about the repercussions. Worse yet, if there aren't any repercussions, they are encouraged to do whatever it takes for the fame/attention.
  • AngieErnst · 9 months ago
    We might play together more nicely but at what cost to free speech?
    There is so much political correctness already in the world that social media
    forcing us to be nicer to our fellow man would be a great thing in superficial
    interactions. But when it comes down to letting someone know exactly how we
    feel, how vulnerable we are, how expressive (or not) we can be, that's really
    the spice of life. It teaches us far more about ourselves than mere niceties
    ever could.
  • Suzanne Lainson · 9 months ago
    I'd prefer some civility/politeness to the bad behavior/poor taste/insults that I see too often online. I always try to be nice. It facilitates dialogue much better than rudeness. Obama is all about community building and that is something I very much respect in him.
  • Nate Rogers · 9 months ago
    The question is "Does social media make us better people?" With 'Social media'
    being defined, in this instance as: The immediate public scrutiny
    of behavior executed over traceable media.

    My answer: No. It may inspire greater self-censorship, but ‘social
    Media’ won't inspire hearts to greater purity.

    Mr. Cashmore follows his initial question with: “Might it actually make
    us…nicer to one another?”

    My answer: Sure. However, flattery shouldn't be confused with altruism.
  • Sanda Davis · 9 months ago
    Yes, Social Media brings more accountability, more awareness, more Paradise
    It already promotes rules of responsibility, respect and humor, it breaks
    secrecy, isolation and fear, it affects the collective without creating a Borg,
    emphasizing the value of individuality, communication and help...it already
    broke the chains of slavery by people being able to reach out to strangers.
    It broke the pyramid of control.
  • Sperry · 9 months ago
    Social Media makes us wonder. The question should be: Does it make us healthier?
  • Knotty · 9 months ago
    Coverage of celebrity behaviour and their subsequent downfalls doesn't make social media better any more than celebrity magazines covering the same stuff does.

    Don't expect social media to make us better, it's just a reflection of real society. The same rules and behaviours apply. For example, a quick glance at YouTube will show you what people will say when given the cover of anonymity. The same goes for any other online forum...
  • mike fogelsanger · 9 months ago
    hey, i'm a better person because of it, at least i think so.
  • Agile Cyborg · 9 months ago
    Social media makes us more artificial than we already are simply because it
    broadens the reality of the extent of our failures, which most humans abhor.

    So, the accountability, responsibility and awareness that many tout about
    the social media experiment duplicates the same superficial shit society has
    always been obsessed with.

    In some ways it's worse than suburban fakery since body language cannot be
    read on Facebook.

    Which is why social media is a wonderful thing to manipulate for fattening
    wallets.
  • Bert Decker · 9 months ago
    Yes!

    Great post Pete...

    Bert
  • Gus23 · 9 months ago
    Someone once told me that nothing is ever new--just different. So with that said, I don't think Social Media makes us better people, it just makes us different. Not even two hundred years ago, 'social media' was basically pen and paper. Imagine when people realized that they could hear about Mrs. Smith's affair with her milkman by postal service in less than a week--crazy! We didn't learn to keep our mouths shut back then and we're certainly not changing anything now. If anything got better, it was our excuses for our actions.
  • Michelle · 9 months ago
    I'm not so sure about the notion that it makes us "better" people. However, I do think that it engenders a sense of community that does have a positive impact on our public and private interactions.
  • Rona · 9 months ago
    So funny that I should run across this (or be tweetdecked/twittered this) blog
    post tonight. I was literally thinking about this very topic sitting in church tonight (Fellowship Church of Grapevine, TX). My church pastor and our associate pastors Twitter, even during church!! They twitter the excitement, energy, current Word - really cool stuff. Anyway, I was realizing thqat will all the avalanche of EVERYONE jumping on the SNA trains, I think it has the ability to help us become more authentic and transparent. I think it also has the opportunity to help us knock off the constant human weakness of back-stabbing, back-biting, gossiping, letting our emotions cuase us to say stupid things about someone who hurts us. It takes a nano-second for something we say to reach round the world (kinda like that famous shot on April 19, 1775). I think it helps us take a deep breath and think twice realizing that we have no idea who may be reading our thoughts and emotions. Interesting times we live in today!
  • Agile Cyborg · 9 months ago
    Rona,

    I would argue that human weakness IS authentic.

    And the desire to control every single item one says and does is the
    embodiment of artificiality.

    You become what you assume 'those' who may be reading your thoughts and
    emotions desire you to be, rather than a more pure expression of who you are
    which WILL include weakness.
  • Rona · 9 months ago
    Agile Cyborg,

    No argument - you make a few excellent points, especially that human weakness
    is authentic! I cannot stand pretension and pretensious, pious, self-righteous
    "Christians" are the WORST!!

    Let me make my point more clearly, I am bad about getting ticked off about stuff
    that isn't even a deal in the grand scheme of things and I'll go let out my
    anger and angst by telling someone who in turn will tell someone else, etc. It
    isn't ever worth all the excessive drama and needless pain it brings about. I
    guess it is fresh on my bloginion (blog opinion) because I just blew off some
    steam about a colleague in an SNA I belong to and before I knew it a mutual friend
    joined that network and the person I originally ranted and raved asked about
    the network and wanted to join it. For me, the lesson learned was that we live
    in a glass house society and I need to learn to keep my immature, impulsive
    mouth shut! It was a very self-centered need to go in and blow off steam in
    a room full of strangers. I could have received the same support and encouragement
    as well as professional growth advice without ever having gone into the details
    of the scenario.

    Make sense?

    In other words - IT'S A SMALL WORLD AFTER ALL! (That was my favorite DisneyLand
    ride when I was a girl living in LA, you'd think I would have taken that as a
    prophetic hint for my adult life! LOL)
  • TotallyTea · 9 months ago
    Does social media make us better people?... Might it actually make us… nicer to one another?
    I don’t believe social media make us any better or worse than we are in the ‘real’ world. Yes, to an extent, there are those who try to disguise their characters to present themselves in a better light, but I don’t believe such a ruse is sustainable over the long term (the truth will out, as it were). IMHO, online behavior is reflective of who a person really is, illuminating positive traits and exacerbating negative traits.

    People who are genuinely kind, outgoing, helpful, etc, will likely remain so on social media sites. Those who behave politely face-to-face but turn around and backstab no doubt will behave much the same way in the seeming anonymity of the Internet. That is, they may be courteous initially but revert to character. Then, there are those individuals who are nasty whether live or on the Web; however, the Internet provides a medium in which many of these latter people feel free to let their worst traits spill over, again because of the seeming anonymity.
  • Mary Walker · 9 months ago
    Human nature doesn't change. People will still find ways to be nasty to each
    other. ;-)

    That said: I do believe that civilization advances over the long term. I
    believe that overall the world is a better, more civilized place than it was
    1000 or 500 years ago. And yes the internet is a piece of that...but we need
    to take a realistic view of it.

    The internet, and social media specifically, are a new powerful tool.
    People who are able to use that tool effectively will have a new way to
    defend themselves and their causes by bringing attention to their point
    of view -- they have a new channel for making their case.

    However: social media is very susceptible (as humans are) to the issues of
    charisma, celebrity status, and image manipulation. Some people have a gift
    of communication online -- they can make sh*t look like gold. And vice versa --
    people with legitimate issues and grievances can't get attention because
    they don't know how to do good PR -- they don't know how to make their
    issue "sexy."

    So there's a risk that internet/social media will simply become another
    arena where style triumphs over substance, where important issues get
    ignored in favor of titillating trivia. Postman's still right: we're still
    very much at risk of entertaining ourselves to death.

    That said: I love online culture and social media. But let's not get
    ahead of ourselves by believing that a new tool/environment is some
    guaranteed uplift for human nature. (After all, they thought that
    about television too -- see how that one played out?)

    It's not that simple. Social media are changing the power dynamics. But
    that doesn't mean power issues go away, or that abuses of power and
    injustice go away or become impossible to perform.

    BTW science fiction novels deal w/ this a lot -- sometimes I get the feeling
    that a lot of social media people need to read more sci fi. Nobody can
    read Rainbows End, Pattern Recognition or Spook Country and
    still believe that increased virtualization and ubiquitous communications will
    inevitably result in people behaving better towards each other.
  • Jenifer Olson · 9 months ago
    Good post!

    While the Social Media platform encourages us to be nice to each
    other, I'm not sure this automatically makes us better people.

    Some thoughts...

    1) We're nice because we self-regulate:
    Social Media communities do a fairly good job of self-regulating user behavior,
    typically resulting in constructive communications. Put simply, the majority
    of responsible users effectively manage the few who aren't.

    2.) We're nice because we adhere to social constraints:
    Most people are keenly aware of maintaining positive personal brands they
    would be proud to share with anyone, from employers to families. Thus, the
    negative consequences of poor behavior serve as deterrents.

    3.) Some of us may be nice because we're afraid:
    People in closed societies are often afraid to offend those in control.
    Communication might be nice, but not honest.

    So, no, I don't believe Social Media necessarily makes us better people because
    we're nicer to each other, or more polite. But I do think it has the potential
    to facilitate increased communication,which can engender increased
    understanding and tolerance. And that just might make us better people who
    also happen to be nice. :-)
  • Achim · 9 months ago
    Pete,

    thanks for bringing this up, as I consider this to be an important issue.

    Unfortunately I don't think that it will turn us all into nice people, at least
    not in the short-run. However I do think that it makes it more difficult to
    get away with not being nice, which is positive.

    Furthermore the media makes it easier to find and follow nice people. This can
    also be positive, since it is part of human nature to follow (or be followed).
    Think about how much more successful Gandhi could have been globally, had he
    had a blog, Twitter, Facebook etc. at his disposal.

    So in the long-run there is hope.
  • Prokofy Neva · 9 months ago
    No, what you are describing is an outsourced police state, with the state
    porting the function of monitoring and browbeating and punishing to
    people. I don't see this positive at all. The incidents you describe here
    of various public figures having their careers ruined actually show that
    this sort of outsourced hate isn't making people better. Those people
    did not deserve to have their lives ruined over one incident or case of
    bad judgement merely because of the amplification of social media.

    The character of those anonymous judgemental types who can destroy others
    so malicious really is in question.
  • Staci J. Shelton · 9 months ago
    People are absolutely being nicer. There's hardly any anonymity and we are held accountable for our actions and words. For quite some time now, that trend was moving rapidly in the other direction. People are actually thinking before they speak - what a beautiful thing. Free speech is not a right it's a privilege, words and actions have consequences. I'm not sure when etiquette became passé, but it's seemed to make a beautiful, well needed comeback.
  • Brian Campbell · 9 months ago
    Social Media has it's own self-correcting policies. Everyone is so interconnected that the people who would want to abuse it are eventually shunned ignored. This causes them to eventually give up & quit because nobody is paying attention to them.

    The other side of the coin is that some people will ignore the people who "break the rules", while other similar minded people will find each other and the group of "social outlaws" who do everything that breaks one group's rules will be totally accepted in another group.

    There are no "rules" for using social media, but that's what makes it great. People can use it however they want to. They will attract the people that agree with those ways, or they'll simply ignore, de-friend, unsubscribe, or otherwise disconnect from people they don't want to socialize with.
  • Glenn Laudenslager · 9 months ago
    Great comments here. I agree w/ the statement that reality TV and the immediacy of social media -- combined with media coverage -- have led to an increase in outrageous or bad behavior by people in search of their 15 minutes. Yet the social media world also recognizes and holds people accountable, so there's good balance. And yes, there are groups for the "outlaws" just like there are groups for the "law abiders" -- it's all just part of any community, online is no exception to that.
  • Behind the Screen · 9 months ago
    I doubt that the human nature will change because of Twitter and other tools.
    Social media may, however, bring us closer to one another.
    A long time ago when people lived in small communities like villages, you didn't have a choice. Everyone knew your business and you knew everyone else's business. The question of privacy and publicity wasn't there at all. Social media may have something to do with this village idea.
  • Agile Cyborg · 9 months ago
    There is a lot of fudge fresh off the block here. And it's sweet and steaming
    but lacks vitality and reality.

    Many seem to think that this kind of interaction CREATES respect, kindness,
    honesty and love when in fact it DOESN'T.

    Social media merely creates aggregates of like-minded individuals who are
    intolerant of differentials.

    You are artificially being led to believe YOUR group is precious and pious
    and consists of large numbers of changed individuals.

    I don't believe this for one second. You have rejected those who rub wrongly,
    you coalesce around specific themes of conformity and by doing so you create
    a more perfect union of similarity not possible in neighborhoods of wood
    and plastic.

    It is total bullshit to think social media makes us BETTER.

    It makes us compliant and less than authentic, especially since most of
    society is pack-oriented and seeks acceptance.

    (with all due respect, Rona) wink
  • adhansen · 9 months ago
    Twitter also had a lot of chatter and action on the godaddy.com SuperBowl ads,
    with @conniereece and others moving their hosting to other vendors.

    Quick mob action isn't always a bad thing!
  • Adeline · 9 months ago
    I think the anonymity of the Internet gives people the time to craft an intelligent message out so it does not necessarily makes a person more artificial, but just better at saying something. Regarding celebrities, social media just speeds gossips up. Its just too bad for them, being famous. Overall, it adds knowledge to people with tons of information churning every second. Very remarkable phenomenon about sharing.
  • Mary Walker · 9 months ago
    Hey thanks Pete for this topic -- you inspired me to write a blog post on
    the first four SF books people should read, if they're working in
    social media -- and why fiction books can be useful for envisioning
    the future. Post is here: http://bit.ly/ncLBp
  • Colleen · 9 months ago
    Human nature will not change. What may be lost is the relative anonymity of being in a big city at least one's public behaviour. People should probably be wary of doing nefarious things in distant cities lest they somehow be captured on cam by some twitter follower who knows a little about them. How would you like @me what r u doing in Seattle and who iz that guy ur drinkin wif? >>link.to.pic from some stalky twitter follower I barely even track? People even in small villages where everyone knew everyone have historically found ways to get up to all sorts of stuff they would never admit to. The social structures might have enforced silence (e.g. everybody knew the parish priest was doing the town hooker but nobody talked about it for fear of retribution) or two way mutual (I won't tell anybody I saw you steal milk from Shmoe's cow if you don't tell anybody about the potatoes you caught me stealing from Foo.) And anyone who feels inclined to tweet or FB a picture of me with implications better watch out, because I might have friends in Seattle who could snap a candid of them in a strip club, then I could retaliate with @you feelin a little randy eh? >>link.to.pic
  • Richard Becker · 9 months ago
    No. Social media doesn't make people nicer. It only makes some of them act nicer for fear of retribution.

    If you want real change, it happens from the inside out, not from the outside in.

    So while we could argue that placing video camera inside everyone's home and place of work would make for a better society, all we really do is subject people to live in fear. Fear doesn't make people better; it steals away their freedoms. Good people don't act good because they feel they have to act good. Good people act good because they make it part of their nature.

    Now, go be good because you choose to, not because you have to.

    All my best,
    Rich
  • Roxanne · 9 months ago
    There is a reason that Socrates railed against democratic society - this article shows how democratic society often lacks intelligent decision-making processes. To post an individual's photo in national view, knowing there would be outrage, not only invades the privacy of those individuals, but puts them in harms way. This type of behave will continue to denigrate a society that already believes that it is smart enough to govern itself (it is not).
  • Agile Cyborg · 9 months ago
    So, Roxanne, who do you suggest is smart enough to govern this ignorant
    society you speak of?
  • Rona Davis · 9 months ago
    Staci J. Shelton - yeah!! Preach it!! You said what I was trying to say,
    only you said it in many fewer words - short and concise, to the point! Thank
    you for your post, that puts it in perspective for me and I could not agree
    with you more!
  • Agile Cyborg · 9 months ago
    Uh, Scott, People aren't HIDING because they prefer to avoid posting
    more personal information online than is already available.

    Don't become comatose to the fact that many people still value their privacy,
    no matter how f'ing boring it is.

    MY privacy, on the other hand, is rated triple X which makes it entirely
    unacceptable for many places online.

    Lots of information should be left whence it came- boring or
    otherwise.
  • Alison Lowndes · 9 months ago
    I run a charity entirely opnline so have been working publicly online
    for over 3 years now. I recently had to do some PR on a closed forum where
    people hide behind false names. The experience was harrowing. There were
    personal attacks made on me for no reason except ignorance and exactly
    because they were anonymous. Should these (generally male) people have
    been on Facebook they would not have been so nasty. Its an absolute fact
    that social networking sites like Facebook promote civility, openness, honesty
    and friendly, good behaviour.

    Consensus of opinion rules too e.g. Twitter .. if someones trying to hard
    sell you they simply won't be followed. end of story.
  • mike fogelsanger · 9 months ago
    i teach in a public middle school and this lack of civility mentioned on the internet is very relative
  • Sean Maurice Hunt · 9 months ago
    That is a huge leap to say that twitter makes us better socially.
    I think the opposite is happening people choose what to write on twitter and facebook.
    This does not change how they behave in real world situations.
    Seems like more propaganda from the tehcnocrazzi. Twitter and other services like it are actually another barrier to real and meaningful communication.
    Twitter especially is like a grand mass delusion where everyone thinks people acutally care when they are watering the lawn or taking out the trash or whatever. Its insanity. Reminds me of the game on stark trek that takes over the ship and everyone is walking around like a zombie.
  • TigerMunky · 9 months ago
    Pretty creepy me thinks, anyone remember T2... "Skynet", etc.?

    People talkin about apps that know where you are according to your phone...
    Wait til they embed credit card chips in us...

    How about Enemy of the State? ...and more recently... Eagle Eye?

    The less "you are online", the better. ; )
  • RAF · 9 months ago
    Well said Prokofy Neva. Those who extol the virtues of small town life where everyone knows your business and has an opinion about it obviously never lived in one. Just imagine how much more swiftly common wisdom could have used today's technology to dispence "helpful" corrective action to the witches of Salem, the Jews in Germany or the misguided Blacks trying to leave the South. As always, technology is neutral, people are not.
  • Ian Hughes · 9 months ago
    Interesting question, I think Social Media will make a huge difference to the
    way people communicate. Everything is trackable, employers are looking at it
    and importantly people are utilising it to learn and to network.
  • Steve Heideman · 9 months ago
    I think that social media does make us better people because it is structured
    to have us listen to the conversation and absorb multiple points of view before
    we voice our own opinion. This allows us to have a richer and more nuanced
    conversation than we ordinarily would.
  • Jason Finch · 9 months ago
    Way back in 1992 the emerging social media of the time were
    bringing people together in all sorts of new ways with no
    rules - but they brought out all manner of human beings.

    What social media may do now that marketers are becoming aware of them
    is make the conversations louder and wider, make the mainstream aware
    of what the 'geeks' have been doing for years - but it won't really
    change human nature; it may change society in terms of making us more
    aware of being watched, recorded, monitored.. but I can't see it
    really changing human nature.

    Ultimately, humans are sociable animals, and in general I like to
    think that we're inherently friendly, trustworthy and honest people.
    The *principles* of social media are nothing new - we've been
    communicating for thousands of years, and social media is making the
    world smaller and more like local communities, so emulating a lot of
    what humans are about anyway.

    It's making us more connected to people further away, not necessarily "better".
  • Angela Quattrano · 9 months ago
    I see no sign that people are changing for the better. People who like the bland, moderated type of atmosphere that exists on a site like Facebook or Twitter will spend their time there behaving nicely. People who like to act up on occasion will do it on other sites while being good on Facebook. People who are trolls will hang out on sites where this behavior is permitted or encouraged.

    You are segregating yourself from the entirety of reality. Reality has not changed.

    If anything, hanging out on social networking sites where you endlessly write about yourself and tally up immense numbers of "friends" with whom you never truly make contact has made people more shallow and self-centered.

    If you're totally into social networking, you will see it as a force for positive change in the world. Me, I see it as a form of light entertainment.

    You should narrow up this form by about 15 columns. The textarea is so wide that the words you are typing disappear off the edge of the earth, so you can't read what you're typing, at least in Firefox.
  • Natasha · 9 months ago
    To my mind, media in any form does not make us better or worse as people;
    it is a forum which allows individuals to express their 'selves' and whilst
    it can be used for the greater good, that will depend solely on who is using
    the medium and why.

    A recent example could be the mass fraud online in relation to the fabrication
    of evidence on the Palestine/Israel conflict. The net allows people to indulge
    their points of view and therein lies the paradox: some people can express
    their beliefs with full honesty whilst others choose not to.

    The personal choices we make play out in the medium we use. I believe that
    cyberspace has huge potential for unmasking social ills but that it faces all
    the same problems that a non-virtual arena faces: human vulnerability.

    Before we can connect meaningfully to the internet, we need to hardwire our
    brains to the truth, or at least to the pursuit of it.
  • passive consumer · 9 months ago
    The "potential" to make us more sociable through Social Media. But that,
    ultimately, will depend on human behavior. If there's one constant in the
    digital age, it's that it's ever changing and unpredictable. We could always
    go the way of "Idiocracy", I suppose.
  • Tony C · 9 months ago
    I don't think social media will put us on our best behavior. People continus to behave badly whether they are on camera or not. Those people who pay attention to the rules might be a little more careful of negative social media exposure.
  • passive consumer · 9 months ago
    The "potential" to make us more sociable through Social Media is in front
    of our faces. But that, ultimately, will depend on human behavior. If there's one constant in the
    digital age, it's that it's ever changing and unpredictable. We could always
    go the way of "Idiocracy", I suppose.
  • William W. (Woody) Williams · 9 months ago
    Whether or not we are "nicer" in public has little, or nothing to do with
    becoming "better people" and it is arguable if we are, indeed, even
    nicer in public due to the SM toolkit.

    People use tools, not the other way around, and we at heart the people we are
    regardless of the tools we use.

    SM makes it easier to be good or bad in the scalable sense, but there's
    nothing inherently good -- or bad about SM.
  • geo geller · 9 months ago
    to repond to your question - even though your examples were mostly negative - i think social media has a hidden agenda to make us more us to be like the flapping of butterfly wings can change a storm or event ccreate a storm and if we don't stop pretending we are zombies it will freeze us in a past that is pretty dark - the present systemic meltdown is a failure of trust the social media space social communication social sculpture space is trying to reflect on the lack of trust by niavely buidling trust by shared passions and interests - in essence - a society built on fear and distrust serves its masters and leaders a society built on trust serves its people - the question we have to ask ourselves is who protects us from those who say they are protecting us and when will we ever learn that going along to get along is wrong and leads us into very strange dark place - its up to each one of us to take back the future to make a difference in our own way in our own back yard - good question keep asking them - geo
  • Shira Lazar · 9 months ago
    The fact that everything is more transparent makes people step back and think about their actions and what type of image they're projecting to the world. I agree, this could possibly make people think twice before they do or say something that's makes them look like disrespect people and the world around them. In turn, this means people take more responsibility for their actions. Social media becomes a therapy of sorts, an exercise in self awareness.

    People fear the loss of a privacy. You don't need to reveal every detail of your life, but social media makes it easy to get a sense of who a person is by what they share and how they live. Ultimately, if you're a good person, there's nothing to hide and no fear to be had.
  • Shira Lazar · 9 months ago
    Oops! just saw some typos at the beginning of my comment- sorry!
  • Chris Thomas · 9 months ago
    Social media both reflect existing patterns and add a few novelties due to new
    opportunities for reaching a greater public and also the initial capability for alter egos and anonymity.

    So behavior will reflect the choice and range of contacts as well as type of interaction
    preferred (family, friends, business, interest groups). After an initial rush of
    enthusiasm in making contacts (and how many still see plain counting as an objective in
    itself), longer use of any network introduces a natural selection to those contacts of
    real interest.

    As humans, we readily adapt to different social situations, so the behavior will be
    determined by the conventions of whichever group you are interacting with at the time.

    As social animals we are also very susceptible to peer pressure and the avoidance of
    exclusion by breaking the conventions of a group. My feeling is therefore that social
    media do not necessarily make better people, they will make us better communicators in
    a variety of networks.
  • Michael Langley · 9 months ago
    Anything that brings us together is positive for the world. Let's face it, we isolate ourselves on a global level by not learning about and interacting with people from other cultures/parts of the world. Anything that makes this world smaller and gives me insight I did not have is a great thing. Social networks are great for that.
  • Val P. · 9 months ago
    Human nature won't change due to social media. The real question is who is the real scoundrel? The one telling the tale or the one being told on? Parents have had to deal with this question for generations. Now it's simply grown up and left for society to judge. It's the very nature of humans to want to know the worst about everyone and only promote your own good. Very few rise above that trend to strive for the best for all of us. Until the social media has more cases of kindness and heroism making the top trend charts than tattling gossip, the social media will still be primarily encouraging our baser natures.
  • Elevenser · 9 months ago
    It doesn't make us nicer, but reminds us that we are to be held accountable for our actions. Twenty or thirty years ago we may have been held accountable to our neighbors or our hometown. Now that we've become more mobile we've simply found a way to scale that accountability.

    Same fish, bigger pond?
  • Reaction Remedy · 9 months ago
    Maybe not better people, but it certainly controls our actions.
    When we think we are being watched, taped, and remembered at every moment its important to be thoughtful and behave in a socially acceptable manner. Good or bad? Definitely limiting.
  • Melanie Robbins · 9 months ago
    This is a great question. I think that the interconnectivity and the decentralized mass distribution of news and ideas via social media, including blogs, is basically a good thing. When Middle Eastern extremists were on a beheading binge a few years back, the exposure did not help them, as I presume they thought it would. The West’s outrage, which reached its zenith with the beheading of journalist Daniel Pearl, was so forceful that by and large, this tactic has abated. Thank god.

    If you’ve been a bosshole and attempt to get a high-level job at a public institution (and the job search is public), you will have trouble now that the Internet is available to all your victims.

    And the attempt of newspaper chains in the ’80s to drive out competitors, thereby making the newshole of a newspaper merely the gray matter that flowed around the ads instead of a competitive forum for democracy, has itself been destroyed by ubiquitous blogs and alternative information (as a journalist who witnessed this, I am laughing at the chains as they continue to lose subscribers – it is their karma coming home to roost.)

    Yes, there’s a lot of bad info out there now. That’s the risk. Yes, bad outcomes can be expected if a “mob rule” mentality overtakes a group. Yes, cyberbullying is a bad thing and can have dreadful (suicide of teens) outcomes. Not having access to a wide and vast array of information, or having information controlled by the power elite, is worse in my opinion.
  • Gregory Ferenstein · 9 months ago
    Scientifically speaking, Yes, I definitely think it has an impact. But, only in one way:
    it makes the younger generation more cosmopolitan.

    Gen Y is the _most_ likely to feel like a "citizen of the world".

    However, the conditions which facilitate cooperation and empathy are not inherent
    to social media: we can barricade ourselves in niche groups as easily as expand our social circle.
    I think there's certainly potential given the right system.
    @wikiworld
  • Kristina Marie · 9 months ago
    As with anything, it can be used for good or evil. And I think we could all
    think of examples of social media being used positively and negatively.

    But in my experience the "tone" of Twitter and other community forums has been
    generally positive and used by people genuinely wanting to help and learn from
    one another. This is great to see!

    While social media can't "make" us better people, but it can certainly help if
    we choose to use it for this purpose.
  • Adrian Ionel · 9 months ago
    Absolutely. Knowing is caring. We know more about each other. So we become better friends, citizens, colleagues. And
    we learn that what we do is seen and matters. This leads to better behavior.
  • SuziO · 9 months ago
    Better? I am not sure, but well connected: yes. If you know how to select
    people and information you want, it could be helpful. We can make nice
    firendships all over the world and keep ourselves well informed! It is cool!
  • SuziO · 9 months ago
    Better? I am not sure, but well connected: yes. If you know how to select
    people and information you want, it could be helpful. We can make nice
    friendships all over the world and keep ourselves well informed! It is cool!
  • Christopher · 9 months ago
    Connecting is the name of the game here. In our acts to share, publish, inform, and downright annoy, I doubt that behaviors will be shaped into a Mary Poppins way of being. The tools at our fingertips are making the world a lot less formal. Along with this trend comes the lost art of self control and the never ending push to new extremes. Even with all of that said, I do see a trend in "people credit". The people I believe in and the ones I don't. If you act in certain ways or share untruths, you will lose credit. Just like in my in-person life, I chose to associate with people I like or admire. Same goes for the people I am following in Twitter.
  • Jerry Kambic · 9 months ago
    I have always felt that people coming together in an exchange of ideas would change the world. I also believe it is happening today as we discuss this very topic. If the entire world could exchange ideas governments would have to deal with the will of the people. More citizen journalism and gobal thinking is what will make this planet a better place to live. Remember,the human race will not out last this planet. Let's all enjoy the little time we all have to be alive. Peace
  • Stan Sanders · 9 months ago
    Pete,

    Are we better people due to social media is an interesting question. Being
    more aware of each other and the world around us should improve the human
    condition, but people are still people. Some will be more affected by this
    than others, some it probably will not change at all. I do wonder, is this
    leading us to have less face to face communication, which would be a loss.
  • John Davis · 9 months ago
    Wow, you actually do raise some pretty valid points!

    RT
    www.anonymity.eu.tc
  • Zoe Whitton · 9 months ago
    Social Media makes us more powerful. It dilutes the power of traditional governing bodies by breaking down barriers. Because we access information and respond faster we operate in swarms. We can respond rapidly to any event without being restricted by our governments or nations.

    The funds raised for the recent fires in the South came partly from people who witnessed the aftermath through social media, and it came fast. The death threats and exposed identities of arsonists also happened online, on Facebook.

    Social media allows us to act on whatever we want, faster and more effectively than ever. We got more funds for that incident than we could have hoped for otherwise, and the facebook groups are being shut down. Better people in this instance.
  • David - LA Marketing Firm · 9 months ago
    With all due respect, you know that social media is merely a communication tool
    like every other. Let's not fool ourselves. There are the myspace murder
    incidents, the ability to communally ostracize someone publicly has great
    repercussions. It just amplifies current social values.


    Undoubtedly, there are numerous benefits to social media. Having people's private
    lives come out has positives and negatives...

    The question shouldn't be "what can we do to use social media to bring out the
    best sides of ourselves, and minimize the negative stuff"...

    And that's a good question - something that I haven't spent close to enough time
    on.

    (It's mostly been spent simply using the social media ;) )
  • Suzanne Lainson · 9 months ago
    Here's a variation. You take a photo of people you meet but don't know and send it to this company that keeps it on file. If anything happens to you, there is a record, with a time stamp, of strangers you have met, at a bar, coming to your home to work on the plumbing, etc.

    http://www.foxbusiness.com/story/markets/als-em...
  • Rohan · 9 months ago
    I think so - particularly how its transparency can be considered a prompt for
    ethical action. If you want a particularly Buddhist take on this whole issue check out

    http://www.21awake.com/?p=465
  • Apple Blotter - social news fo · 9 months ago
    Not sure if social media makes us better people, but it can certainly help us communicate better and stay more informed with what interests us.

    One of the greatest advantages of any social media website, is the ability of the community to influence mainstream. Whether it's Twitter, Facebook, or AppleBlotter --- people discover new people, groups, communities that interest them and share similar interests.

    All that said, I think many people act differently but not necessarily as a different person. Being aware of things can be a form of enlightenment, no? Handling and what you do with that enlightenment is the real question.
  • shane mcloughlin · 9 months ago
    The concluding headline of social conscience does seem fitting here!
    The web has created the possibility for a kind of crowd sourced big brother. Big Brother doesn't become some burecratic and institutionalised entity, it becomes the will of sections of society.
    This creates a whole new dystopian vision. As it seems to suggest less possibility for true self determination and free will, Social media being a more efficient and
    effective means of keeping society in check, in an age of increasing population and urbanisation.
    It is worth noting though that the ratio to consumer contributor on the web is incredibly small ranging from .2% (youtube) to 5% (wikipedia) at best.
    Overall, it points to the increased need for reflexive web use, with a degree of caution and vigilance with regard to what one says on websites.

    see; relativemusings.blogspot.com
  • Brandon Peele · 9 months ago
    Social media makes us only more connected to the existing social contract. To the extent that the contract is good, we are better people. To the extent that the contract is bad, we are. This begs deeper philosophical questions that lie far outside the scope of this site. I argued a possible outcome of the transparency of social media on namasteeconomics.com, which you might find interesting.
  • Don Rhoades · 9 months ago
    As Machiavelli stated: "an armed society is a polite society", and everyone with an internet connection is "armed" with a watchful eye on their neighbors, government, and themselves.
  • Twitter Tools Lister · 3 months ago
    What is great about Social Media and the blurring of boundaries that it brought is that it empowers us as individuals. With regards to the question of making us nicer to one another, it is very possible that social media can make us nicer individuals. It also can make us more critical and responsible individuals.
  • socialtweet · 3 months ago
    Actually, I think social media makes us vain people. Whatever it is that they say about the lost of our privacy, in the end, it all boils down to wanting our face seen by many people. Though, I must somehow agree that in a way, it does makes us conscious of the way we act. But it doesn't necessarily makes us better people.
  • socialtwit · 3 months ago
    I think social media is both a bane and a boon when it comes to our "face" as people of this hightech generation. In a way, yes, it makes us better people because we go to lengths that other people may not see us as nuts. But then again, it makes us very vain. Let's face it, we want to see our faces everywhere and for other people to recognize us, right? So in effect, we do all we can to create a roar for ourselves. Does this--being vain--makes us better people? I think not. It only makes us more aware of what we can do for ourselves. Very much like the 15-minutes of stardom that people from yesterday dreamed of.

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